fix: mdapi deploy negative one

[mshanemc]

What does this PR do?

mdapi:deploy/retrieve/report has special treatment for -w -1
indefinitely long waits should be the default for retrieve/report

help text was reporting default twice

explanation:
This is in the plugin instead of SDR to avoid changing the behavior there and reduce the scope of this "feature" to just mdapi:deploy
this uses milliseconds because polling client eventually will be using ms. using max_safe_int for something larger (ex: minutes) would probably break something when it gets converted to ms.

fix logger's fail on circular dependency forcedotcom/cli#1518

What issues does this PR fix or reference?

forcedotcom/cli#1519
forcedotcom/cli#1518
forcedotcom/cli#1511 (about help being wrong)
@W-11147622@
@W-11150198@

[iowillhoit]

QA Notes
I was able to pass -w -1 on all of the modified commands:

sfdx force:mdapi:deploy -d metadataPackage_1652718790193 -w -1
sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -w -1
sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve -r temp/retrieve-dir -w -1

[iowillhoit]

Tested again with recent changes, LGTM

[shetzel]

SOAP and REST
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy -d converted/ -l RunLocalTests -w -1
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy -d converted/ -l RunLocalTests -w 0
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy -d converted/ -l RunLocalTests
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy -d converted/ -l RunLocalTests -w 100
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7DxUSAV -w 0
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7DxUSAV -w 0 --json
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7DxUSAV
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7DxUSAV -w -1
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7ETuSAN --json
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:deploy:report -i 0Af9A00000Z7FfXSAV -w 100

✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve -r retrieved -k package.xml
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve -r retrieved -k package.xml -w -1
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve -r retrieved -k package.xml -w 0
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve:report -r retrieved -w 100 --json
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve:report -r retrieved -w 0
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve:report -r retrieved -w -1
✅ sfdx force:mdapi:retrieve:report