Update pin_upload() args to be consistent with pin_write()

[juliasilge]

There have been some improvements to the arguments of pin_write() lately, but pin_upload() has fallen behind in those improvements, as pointed out in #804.

It's also worth taking a look at the pin_download() / pin_read() pair.

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