update proxy of master to raftstore-proxy

[CalvinNeo]

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #4982, close #9287

Problem Summary:
update proxy to raftstore-proxy
Proxy PR:
Including:\nSubmodule contrib/tiflash-proxy 87b6682861..0ea7365e65:

Merge pull request #377 from CalvinNeo/upd-redact-log

What is changed and how it works?

ref #8977.
Include tikv/tikv#17212 to support log densensitation in tiflash-proxy

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

Release note

None

[CalvinNeo]

/retest

[CalvinNeo]

/retest

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Timeline:

• 2024-07-16 06:18:45.090795037 +0000 UTC m=+334747.081736507: ☑️ agreed by JaySon-Huang.
• 2024-07-16 06:45:28.326037427 +0000 UTC m=+336350.316978892: ☑️ agreed by Lloyd-Pottiger.

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In response to a cherrypick label: failed to apply #9236 on top of branch "release-8.1":

[failed to git add conflicting files: exit status 128, failed to git commit: exit status 128]

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In response to a cherrypick label: failed to apply #9236 on top of branch "release-7.5":

[failed to git add conflicting files: exit status 128, failed to git commit: exit status 128]