feat: support ruler sidecar in singleBinary mode

[okozachenko1203]

What this PR does / why we need it:
support ruler sidecar in singleBinary mode

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:
Fixes #10967

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• Documentation added
• Tests updated
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[3deep5me]

I would also need & love this feature!

[3deep5me]

Hi @okozachenko1203,
i think you need to sign the CLA that the PR can be proceeded.

[tyriis]

would be great to have this resolved :)

[jazzlyn]

any chance to get this merged?

[janisii]

Any updates on this?

[trevorwhitney]

LGTM

[3deep5me]

Thanks for merging this!

Just a notice, please update the Chart.yaml in the next time. With this MR semantic versioning has been eliminated.
I had a fixed Chart-Version in ArgoCD and out of nowhere a new sidecar with new mounts appeared in my deployments.