fix: optimize the mechanism of quota refresh

[chlins]

Optimize the mechanism of quota refresh, return earlier to reduce the conflicts of optimistic lock. This is a follow-up fix to the #17392.

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Codecov Report

Merging #18795 (8947edf) into main (8251fd2) will decrease coverage by 0.02%.
The diff coverage is 100.00%.

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- Coverage   67.39%   67.37%   -0.02%     
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  Files         980      980              
  Lines      106864   106867       +3     
  Branches     2665     2665              
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- Hits        72020    72001      -19     
- Misses      30971    30994      +23     
+ Partials     3873     3872       -1     

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unittests	67.37% <100.00%> (-0.02%)	⬇️

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Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
src/controller/quota/controller.go	45.65% <100.00%> (+0.90%)	⬆️

... and 11 files with indirect coverage changes

[wy65701436]

lgtm