Privatize ElementType subclass constructors

[srawlins]

The only entrypoint for constructing ElementType subclasses is ElementTypeBuilderImpl.fromType. All constructors should be private. Also:

• Standardizing on using the parameter name type for the DartType in these constructors.
• Add some stats collection for instantiated element types and caching of model elements.

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