feat(cli): deploy/destory require explicit stack selection if app contains more than a single stack

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To reduce risk to production systems, if an app includes more than a single
stack, "cdk deploy" and "cdk destroy" will fail and require that explicit
stack selector(s) will be specified.

Since wildcards are supported "cdk deploy '*'" will select all stacks.

Added support for stack selectors in "cdk ls"

Closes #2731

BREAKING CHANGE:

• cli: if an app includes more than one stack "cdk deploy" and "cdk destroy" now require that an explicit selector will be passed. Use "cdk deploy '*'" if you want to select all stacks.

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