[3.0] Fix Listener early initialization

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What is the purpose of the change

Fix #7896 on 3.0

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Codecov Report

Merging #9006 (2d8382c) into 3.0 (f561138) will decrease coverage by 0.05%.
The diff coverage is 33.33%.

@@             Coverage Diff              @@
##                3.0    #9006      +/-   ##
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- Coverage     63.38%   63.33%   -0.06%     
- Complexity      314      315       +1     
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  Files          1186     1187       +1     
  Lines         50358    50368      +10     
  Branches       7525     7526       +1     
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- Hits          31920    31901      -19     
- Misses        14957    14989      +32     
+ Partials       3481     3478       -3     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...nfigBeanDefinitionConflictApplicationListener.java	34.37% <0.00%> (ø)
.../autoconfigure/DubboListenerAutoConfiguration.java	100.00% <100.00%> (ø)
.../context/event/WelcomeLogoApplicationListener.java	64.00% <0.00%> (-28.00%)	⬇️
...in/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/JVMUtil.java	81.13% <0.00%> (-11.33%)	⬇️
.../remoting/transport/netty4/NettyServerHandler.java	58.13% <0.00%> (-9.31%)	⬇️
.../common/threadpool/serial/SerializingExecutor.java	70.37% <0.00%> (-7.41%)	⬇️
...ng/transport/dispatcher/all/AllChannelHandler.java	82.75% <0.00%> (-6.90%)	⬇️
...ntext/event/AwaitingNonWebApplicationListener.java	74.64% <0.00%> (-5.64%)	⬇️
...pache/dubbo/registry/support/AbstractRegistry.java	76.81% <0.00%> (-3.99%)	⬇️
.../exchange/support/header/HeaderExchangeServer.java	66.98% <0.00%> (-1.89%)	⬇️
... and 12 more

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