[3.0] Fix #8704, unify error message

[wangchengming666]

issue no #8704

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Merging #8794 (3a04ff5) into 3.0 (1702fa0) will increase coverage by 0.03%.
The diff coverage is 80.00%.

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##                3.0    #8794      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage     63.74%   63.78%   +0.03%     
- Complexity      313      314       +1     
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  Files          1169     1169              
  Lines         49210    49205       -5     
  Branches       7360     7357       -3     
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+ Hits          31370    31385      +15     
+ Misses        14412    14395      -17     
+ Partials       3428     3425       -3     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
...ubbo/registry/client/ServiceDiscoveryRegistry.java	81.87% <66.66%> (-0.25%)	⬇️
.../java/org/apache/dubbo/config/ReferenceConfig.java	82.68% <100.00%> (+0.63%)	⬆️
...in/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/JVMUtil.java	81.13% <0.00%> (-11.33%)	⬇️
.../apache/dubbo/remoting/transport/AbstractPeer.java	60.86% <0.00%> (-4.35%)	⬇️
...ting/zookeeper/curator/CuratorZookeeperClient.java	66.50% <0.00%> (-0.50%)	⬇️
...n/java/org/apache/dubbo/common/utils/NetUtils.java	69.03% <0.00%> (+0.32%)	⬆️
...rg/apache/dubbo/common/timer/HashedWheelTimer.java	80.06% <0.00%> (+0.68%)	⬆️
...e/dubbo/remoting/transport/netty4/NettyClient.java	71.01% <0.00%> (+1.44%)	⬆️
.../dubbo/remoting/transport/netty4/NettyChannel.java	66.33% <0.00%> (+2.97%)	⬆️
.../apache/dubbo/remoting/transport/CodecSupport.java	83.07% <0.00%> (+3.07%)	⬆️
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[BurningCN]

pls fix conflicts

[wangchengming666]

pls fix conflicts

done, thanks