Add WrapDB Entry for ADBC

[WillAyd]

What feature or improvement would you like to see?

Now that #1941 has been completed, a nice follow up would be to add the ADBC drivers to the Meson WrapDB. This would give end users a very simple way to embed ADBC client sources into their own applications.

The one thing that makes ADBC different from other entries in the WrapDB is the fact that many of the components you'd want to distribute are toggled on via options, i.e. if you wanted sqlite built you have to do meson configure =Dsqlite=true

I think this means we would declare dependencies for the adbc_sqlite, adbc_postgresql, etc... and the user may have to specify things like:

adbc_sqlite_dep = dependency('adbc_sqlite', default_options: ['sqlite=true'])
adbc_postgresql_dep = dependency('adbc_postgresql', default_options: ['postgresql=true]')
...

The above idea was taken from an IRC conversation with @eli-schwartz though there may be other ways as well