[FEA]: Prototype a design to ensure asynchronous operations on different streams work nicely with cuda::launch

[miscco]

Asynchronous operations are notoriously difficult.

We need to ensure that any memory allocation that we got from cudaMallocAsync is actually valid when we are trying to access it.

Furthermore, we could have different streams interacting with a kernel, so we need to come up with a design that allows cuda::launch to synchronize when neccessary

Tasks

• [FEA]: Implement a CPO that allows us to query arguments to cuda::launch for their stream dependency #2206
• [FEA]: Implement a design that allows cuda::launch to optionally synchronize with other streams