Reduce VCR recording runtime after package split

[shuyama1]

I've observed some significant recording runtime increases, especially for large size of affected tests, after VCR split.

Example PR: #9666
Before VCR split: ~20 mins for recording #9666 (comment)
After VCR split: ~2 hours for recording #9666 (comment)

What I suspect is, even though VCR split only changed how we run tests in the REPLAYING mode, it skips package compiling for all non-affected services and therefore it needs to compile them (probably multiple times) in the RECORDING mode (previously using compilation cache from the REPLAYING)
Given how we enable the parallelism in RECORDING and the lower size of it due to the limitation of Terraform log setup, it needs much more total compilation time and therefore leads to the long RECORDING runtime.

To resolve this issue, since we've known what packages are affected and needed to run tests against, we can only loop through these packages and run failed tests against them.

Testing: #9717 (comment): recording mode took ~2.5h for 12 TestAccComputeFirewall* and after apply the change in this PR, it takes only ~10 minutes #9721 (comment).

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